Category: maid of honor

Maid of Honor: 15+ Duties You Absolutely Need to Do (Please!)

Brides: this post is for your Maid of Honor! Share this post so she knows what is expected in her role!

Hey, beautiful Maid of Honor! This is your BFF (The Bride) and I wanted to let you know something: you’re really awesome. So awesome, in fact, that I chose you as my leading lady on my wedding day. And with that comes a few duties, but I have total confidence you’ll be great at it. Here’s the low-down on the Maid of Honor duties I’d really, really appreciate if you could tackle for me.

The Bride and Her Bridesmaids | Photo: Erich McVey

photo: erich mcvey

Maid of Honor Duties

Dear Maid of Honor,

These Bridesmaid Sweatpants Make an Awesome Gift for Weddings

Bridesmaid Sweatpants

by sister9designs

When it comes to getting ready for your wedding, what will you wear? If you want your bridesmaids to be just as cute and cozy as you, these name sweatpants are the answer! While we adore these shirts and these incredibly soft robes, sweatpants are a favorite new idea for getting ready. And it’s easy to see why! Sweatpants are cozy. Comfy. Lounge-ready. Spa-ready. You can customize the letter color, so you can easily coordinate with your wedding or her favorite shade. Plus, since these sweatpants are personalized with their names instead of “Bridesmaid”, they are more versatile. Your girls will love to wear their sweatpants while getting ready before the wedding, and again before date night, en route to yoga, while unwinding with a glass of wine, or just to lounge around at home on a lazy Sunday morning.

Giveaway: Wedding Party Cards from Sparkvites!

Wedding party cards are being given away this week! Find out the full scoop below. But first, be sure to subscribe or you’ll miss out on other fun wedding giveaways like this one!

Happy Friday, loves! It’s time for a fun new giveaway brought to you by the awesome folks of Sparkvites! We’ve teamed up with them to give away a set of six wedding party cards to one lucky reader. These aren’t just any wedding party cards — wait until you see how fun and colorful they are! You can use these cards to ask your bridesmaids and groomsmen to be in your wedding. Check out the designs below and enter for a chance to win!

Wedding Party Cards

Which of these designs is your favorite?

Wedding Party Cards

Wedding Party Cards

Wedding Party Cards

Trend Alert: Maid of Honor Wearing a Different Dress

You’ve heard of mismatched bridesmaid dresses, but have you heard of the maid of honor wearing a different dress? It’s a fun new trend that’s happening now and is a way to have her stand out from the bridesmaids. Here are a visuals to show you how it looks!

Maid of Honor Wearing a Different Dress

maid of honor wearing a different dress

via oi

Maid of Honor Wearing a Different Dress

photo: sarah ashley peters

Maid of Honor Wearing a Different Dress

photo: judy pak via style me pretty

This one is especially fun because the MOH gets to wear a gold sequin dress. I want.

Maid of Honor Wearing a Different Dress

photo: megan w

So, loves… what do you think of this trend?

is your maid of honor wearing a different dress?

12 Maid of Honor Mistakes to Avoid

Maid of Honor: this post’s for you! You were selected as the bride’s right-hand lady and there are a handful of maid of honor duties she’ll need you to tackle on the wedding day. The last thing you want to do is forget to do these important tasks, so listen up as we present the twelve maid of honor mistakes to avoid on the wedding day. You are totally going to win at this MOH thing; here are just a few things to keep in mind…

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Maid of Honor Mistakes to Avoid — Top 12 List

MOH Mistake #1. Forgetting to be her BFF.

She picked you because you’re her bestie. Her rock. Be there for her. In a sea full of craziness and stress, be the anchor. Make her laugh. Tell her how awesome she is and how much she rocks that wedding gown. And remind her to enjoy the day, because it really does go way too fast.

MOH Mistake #2. Forgetting two rules of the dress.

If her dress has a train, make sure it stays fluffed out throughout the ceremony. Also, learn how her dress bustles in the back to help her at the reception. You might also need to hold her dress when she goes to the restroom.

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MOH Mistake #3. Not being on lipstick / food-in-teeth / underwear showing / hair flyaways / garlic breath patrol.

Lipstick on the teeth? Food in the teeth? Mint required? Be that spot checker she needs because she’ll be talking to a LOT of people. Spinach looks good in no one’s mouth. Also, if not you, who?

MOH Mistake #4. Not reminding the bride about the marriage license.

For real. You’d be surprised how many people forget to get one three days in advance.

MOH Mistake #5. Falling behind schedule.

Keep the crew on schedule, especially in the morning when getting ready. You don’t want the bride hurrying to get to the ceremony on time, with her hair half-done.

MOH Mistake #6. Not keeping a list of important numbers.

Have important numbers on hand for wedding vendors and anyone else you may need to contact. This is just in case something happens (flowers don’t show, DJ is late, etc.) It helps to be on it before the bride even notices.

MOH Mistake #7. Forgetting to drop off decor or items to the ceremony and/or reception, if needed.

This might include aisle decor setup for the ceremony, the aisle runner, signage, or reception decor like escort cards, place cards, card box, etc. This is typically required if the bride does not have a wedding planner. And, this is really only if the bride asks you to do so.

MOH Mistake #8. Not helping with the dress.

Getting the dress on is not an easy task, especially for a nervous bride. Make sure she has the essentials on hand before you begin (hosiery, accessories, undergarments).

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MOH Mistake #9. Not being her gatekeeper.

Be true to the bride’s wishes: if she doesn’t want someone to see her before the wedding (like the groom), make sure he sure as heck doesn’t.

MOH Mistake #10. Forgetting to write + rehearse your speech.

During the reception, it’s customary for the Best Man speech and Maid of Honor speech to take place. Make sure you have yours written out on paper (at least jot a few notes if you have it memorized) and don’t wing it.

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MOH Mistake #11. Not going with the flow.

There are few times in life where you really, really need to keep your you-know-what together and this is one of those times. If the cake falls apart, figure out how to get a sheet cake delivered from the grocery store stat, etc.

MOH Mistake #12. Not dropping it like it’s hot.

Not a good dancer? Turns out today’s the day to prove yourself wrong because she’ll need you out there to help her get her dance on! Hey, the fast songs are easy, just keep moving. That’s what I do.

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What maid of honor duties would you add to our list? Have you been a maid of honor in the past? If so, which duties were the most important in your opinion?

xo
-Emma

Ask Emmaline: “What Should I Gift to My MOH?”

Hello, loves! We receive TONS of emails from brides-to-be (+ grooms, too!) for wedding planning advice, etiquette, and questions on where to find DIY supplies or handmade wedding items. Today, we’re sharing an exclusive “Ask Emmaline” question from bride-to-be, Jessica, who wants to know what she should gift to her fabulous MOH (Maid of Honor). Read on to find out more…

maid of honor gift - pink chalcedony necklace

Jessica asks,

Dear Emmaline, My Maid of Honor has been such a huge help to me while planning my wedding. She emails me with ideas for my upcoming August rustic/chic wedding, she goes shopping with me for DIY projects, and she has a huge bachelorette party planned that is everything I could dream of! She is SO busy with school and work but always finds the time in her schedule to make planning my wedding a priority. I’d like to give her a gift on the wedding day as a token of my appreciation for all of her help but I want to find something unique. Do you have any suggestions?

Jessica, your friend sounds like she’s got this MOH job down pat! When you have a Maid of Honor that is willing to help with every detail along the way, the planning process is more enjoyable (and less stressful). A sweet gift is a great way to say thank you and show her how much you appreciate her help. One of the best Maid of Honor gift ideas is jewelry because it can be custom-made just for her and she can enjoy wearing it for years to come. Plus, I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t love to add a new piece of jewelry to her collection! To inspire you, here are a few of my (Emma here!) newest personal favorites by the lovely Andrea Bonelli. Her jewelry pieces are handmade and completely custom for a gift your MOH will treasure for years to come!

maid of honor gift - earrings

maid of honor gift - moon necklace

maid of honor gift - deep red necklace

maid of honor gift - pebble earrings

maid of honor gift - silver or gold necklace

Maid of Honor Gift Idea

If you like what you’ve seen above, you’ll love Andrea’s entire shop! And… Andrea even offers giveaways on her blog. You can enter for a chance to win these earrings (shown below) if you enter by January 31st. I’m even trying to win them! Click here to enter now!

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Andrea Bonelli is a Featured Artisan in The Marketplace.

* Need additional Maid of Honor gift ideas? You can find TONS in The Marketplace! Also, check out 50 Must-Have Bridesmaid Gifts.

Happy Planning!


-E.

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Top 15 Best Friends Necklaces for your MOH

Happy Tuesday! Back in the day, I (Emma here!) would attend roller skating parties with my grade school. They were the place to be. At these roller skating parties, we, fifth and sixth graders, would play arcade games and win tickets to cash in for candy or toys. One of the prized possessions? These dinky, plastic best friend necklaces given to your BFF. Do you remember them? Ah, memories. (And, holy markup: we used to cash in TONS of tickets for these and they only cost the rink a few dollars for hundreds of ’em!) I love the idea of gifting a similar, “grown-up” version to your MOH or best friend this holiday season. So, I went on the hunt to find the most adorable best friends necklaces… and I think you’ll love what I’ve found! Read on to see the top fifteen that made the list…

Best Friends Necklaces

1. Puzzle Pieces

best friends necklaces

by steampunk funk

best friends necklaces

by steampunk funk

2. Classic Heart Best Friends Necklaces in Gold

best friends necklaces

by her silver lining

I also love this “Sisters Forever” heart necklace…

best friends necklaces

3. Best Friend Circle

best friend necklaces

by brooklyn charm

4. Half Heart Locket Necklaces

best friend necklaces

by fancy pop

best friend necklaces
by fancy pop

5. You & Me Heart Necklaces

best friend necklaces

by spiffing jewelry

6. Peanut Butter and Jelly Necklaces

peanut butter and jelly necklaces best friends

by a lil bit of cute

7. Best Friend Heart Necklaces with Angel Wings

best friend necklaces

by revelle rose jewelry

8. Circular Necklaces (with Bling)

best friend necklaces

by silvine designs

9. Lucky Horseshoes

best friend necklaces

by philanthropic panda

10. Owl Always Be Your Best Friend

best friends necklaces

by friendly gesture

11. Time Passes But Friendship Remains

This necklace is written in French… Le Tems Passe L’Amitie Reste which means Time Passes But Friendship Remains and includes an hourglass and angel wings.

best friends necklaces

by rqp studio

12. I’ll See Ya… Not If I See You First

best friends necklaces

by tabby cat design

13. Besties Necklace

best friends necklaces

by jewelmint

For a Trio of Best Friends:

14. Fork, Spoon, and Knife

best friends necklaces

by jac and elsie

15. Rock, Paper, and Scissors

best friends necklaces

by jac and elsie

Happy Planning!


-E.

Which one is your favorite? Share below!

P.S. Find more great ideas for bridesmaid gifts in The Handcrafted Wedding, in stores now!

12 Secret Rules Every MOH Ought to Know

Hello, loves! Today’s post is for your nearest and dearest, your MOH, abbreviated for Maid (or Matron) of Honor. The MOH is a key VIP of the bridal party, hand-picked by the couple from their closest crew and selected to represent the leader of the bridesmaids. The MOH and the Best Man are responsible for keeping the party going, keeping the wedding on schedule, and fixing anything that may go amiss along the way. There are a few key responsibilities of the MOH that you may already know, like being supportive, planning the bachelorette party, and giving a toast… but there’s so much more to it than that. Today, we’re revealing 12 secret MOH duties you may not know to ensure you’re prepared for anything that should come your way. So, get ready to roll with the punches and read on to learn the full scoop!

moh duties

by brad ross via aphrodite’s wedding blog

12 Secret MOH Duties

1. Own The Dress.

You know that unflattering, possibly horrifying dress may not look good on you, but who cares? Own it.

2. ABRTKSSYKW: Always Be Ready To Kick Some Serious You-Know-What

This one is self-explanatory. Be the wedding ninja that strikes without warning, whenever and wherever needed. Mistakes happen, so always be kind and courteous if something’s amiss – but do your best to fix the problem without the bride ever having to know.

3. Throw an amazing, no-one-could-have-done-it-better Bachelorette Bash.

Don’t just throw a party, throw a complete bachelorette bash, tailored to her specific tastes. Make a note of her favorite hot spot, arrange for a surprise along the way (a favorite drink, a limo, or a spa day), grab her favorite gals, and spoil her rotten. You know she’d do the same for you!

4. Take initiative.

“Oh, you know those peonies you’ve been eyeing for the reception? Here’s a quick Pinterest board I compiled to give you some inspiration.” (MOH of the Year.) Take a little initiative and she’ll definitely appreciate it. She may feel like her to-do list is never-ending, and every little bit helps. Plus, it shows you care (even if weddings isn’t your forte).

5. Keep the bridesmaids on schedule with dresses, which also means…

This one is a two-parter. The Maid of Honor usually has the task of making sure bridesmaid dresses are ordered on time, that bridesmaids make it to fittings, and that dresses are picked up well in advance. This also means if a bridesmaid is running a little behind of schedule, work it out with her, not the bride. This will give the bride one less thing to worry about – in other words, mission complete.

moh duties

photo by half orange photography via style me pretty

6. Keep essentials on hand at all times.

The bride could need a number of things on her wedding day, so keep a bag of essentials close by just in case. You’ll be her total lifesaver. She could spill (Tide pen!), her ‘do could start to fall mid-day (pins), encounters close talkers (mints), forgets her vows (keep a copy), cries (extra kleenex), cries more tears of joy (eye makeup remover + travel mascara), gets a headache (aspirin)… the list goes on. You know her best, so plan ahead for anything she’s likely to require on the big day. She’ll love you for it.

7. Have contact information for all vendors.

It’s unlikely that it will happen, but vendor scheduling mistakes or other issues can arise on the big day. Be prepared for anything by having contact information for vendors on your cell phone. If the flowers mysteriously never show, the cake is wrong, or the limo is running behind of schedule, you won’t have to ask the bride and freak her out. Just sneak away for a quick minute and give ‘em a ring. Likely they’re just running a little behind, no big deal.

8. When the music is good, you dance.

And, when the music is not so good, you also dance. Either way, you get out there and shake your groove thing, shake your groove thing, yeah yeah. Show them how to do it now.

9. Make sure the couple has plenty of one-on-one time.

The wedding day goes by in an INSTANT. I’ve heard some couples don’t even get to enjoy a full piece of cake because they were too busy taking photos. Make sure the couple has plenty of time to dance, to eat, and to take a mini chat break – just the two of them.

10. Make her laugh.

If she’s stressed out, make her laugh. Break out your best impression, your favorite hilarious moment, or scramble for the hilarious You Tube video she loves on your cell phone. If it’s raining, point out that rain actually means good luck. You get the idea: be the silver lining of the day. She probably won’t need a good laugh, but be ready with one just in case.

moh duties

photo by hendrickson photography via oh lovely day

11. Be the Clean-Up Crew.

Let the couple run away at the end of the night and take care of those last-minute tasks, like cleaning up, returning rental tablecloths, and making sure the venue’s end-of-night tasks have been completed.

12. HAVE FUN.

This one can’t be stressed enough: enjoy the day! It’s a great moment you’ll always remember together and she’ll appreciate all you did to make her wedding the very best. The hard work is done: have fun!


Have any to add to the list? Comment below!

Happy Planning!


-E.