More like realistic! I’m a little concerned myself, since my FMIL cans and volunteered her jars for my wedding. I’ve seen guests at other family weddings take full centerpieces as favors–without asking or being told to–and am afraid some of her jars may be taken by some thoughtless guests. I don’t want to turn down her generosity, but I also don’t want to deal with replacing any lost or broken jars. My grandmother is also volunteering heirloom jars (my great great grandmother’s blue canning jars, all 24 pints) as vases. As incredibly sentimental as that would be, I have the same concerns. If something were to happen to those jars especially, I’d be mortified.

Wondering the same thing myself? Wide mouth or regular for flowers?

Tacky!