Just got engaged and feeling overwhelmed by wedding planning? You’ve probably heard about save-the-dates and wedding invitations and thought, ‘Wait… what’s the difference?’ Don’t stress: you’re not alone. In this guide, you’ll learn what makes save-the-dates and wedding invitations different, when to send them, what details to include, and expert wedding planning tips to keep your guests informed and your big day stress-free.
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What is a Save-the-Date?
A save-the-date is a friendly heads-up for your guests. It tells them your wedding date and location so they can reserve the day. It’s usually sent 6 to 8 months before the wedding, and up to 12 months before the big day if many guests need to travel or book accommodations.
Save-the-dates are typically informal and can include fun elements like photos, magnet cards, or cute graphics. You can even make a fun newspaper design. You don’t need to include every detail yet—just enough to get the date on people’s calendars.
What is a Wedding Invitation?
A wedding invitation is the official notice that gives all the essential details about your wedding day. This includes:
- Venue address and directions
- Date and time
- Dress code (if any)
- RSVP instructions and deadlines
Wedding invitations are usually sent 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding to give guests enough time to RSVP and plan accordingly.
Key Differences Between Save-the-Dates and Invitations
| Aspect | Save-the-Date | Wedding Invitation |
|---|---|---|
| Purpose | Inform guests of the date & location | Provide all official wedding details |
| Timing | 8-10 months (12 months for travel) before the wedding | 8-10 weeks before the wedding |
| Formality | Informal, fun, flexible | Formal, detailed, RSVP required |
| Content | Basic info (date, city) | Full info (venue, time, dress code, RSVP) |
Tips for Sending Save-the-Dates and Invitations
- Start early: Send save-the-dates 6–8 months in advance (12 months in advance if you have guests traveling).
- Be clear: Include all key info on invitations and RSVP details.
- Use consistent styling: Keep colors, fonts, and style similar for both save-the-date and invite to create a cohesive wedding theme.
- Track responses: Consider using RSVP websites or cards to easily manage guest responses.
- Plan for mail delays: Give extra time if you’re mailing internationally, or during busy postal seasons (i.e. the holidays).
PRO TIP: Stumped on what goes on the invite? Read: 5 Things Every Wedding Invitation Should Include.
Conclusion
Understanding the difference between a save-the-date and a wedding invitation helps reduce stress and keeps your guests informed. Save-the-dates are your early heads-up, invitations are the official call-to-action. Follow these tips and your wedding planning timeline will be much smoother!
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Happy Planning!
xo
Emma
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