The latest engagement party etiquette question has our readers scratching their heads, including this question from bride-to-be, Tessa:
“Dear Emmaline, I was reading the blog post about who to invite at the engagement party, and my mom and I did make a list. But now I’m wondering if we should send official engagement party invites. Do we mail them out or can they be digital? We’ve got the engagement party coming up soon, so we’re kind of pressed for time. Thanks.”
Do You Need to Send Engagement Party Invitations?
Hi Tessa! Congratulations on getting engaged!
Yes, once you’ve decided who you’re inviting to the party, you’ll send out invitations. Most engagement invitations are sent via mail. This ensures that you’ll have direct communication with your guests.
I know you’re on a tight schedule, so it is perfectly acceptable to send digital engagement invitations if you prefer. If you do, follow up with guests by phone who don’t respond right away to make sure they got the email.
You should also send a mailed invitation to guests who don’t use or have internet access. You don’t want a guest to miss out on the fun just because they don’t have email or can’t access it.
An RSVP date should be included on the invitation to allow you to get an exact headcount before the party for the food and beverages. 1 to 2 weeks before the party should be ample time for the final attendee number.
Where To Buy Engagement Party Invitations
If you are looking for recommendations, engagement invitations are available digitally from Greenvelope or printed from Minted. Both are fantastic options with beautiful invitation templates that are easy to edit.
Here are some digital options from Greenvelope:
And some printed invitation cards from Minted:
I hope it helps. Have fun at the party!
xo
Emma
