You’re engaged – yay! First things first: take a deep breath, pop the bubbly, and enjoy that post-engagement glow. You’ve just said “yes” to forever — now let’s take the very first steps toward your big day with confidence (and coffee).
If you’re wondering what to do when you get engaged, you’re not alone! This is the start of our 52 Weeks to Wed series: one easy, doable task list each week to help you plan your wedding — without the overwhelm.
This Week’s Focus:
- Set a wedding date (or at least a season!)
- Create a wedding budget
- Start your guest list
Step 1: Choose a Wedding Date (or Season)
Before you tour venues or shop for dresses, decide on a general wedding date — or at least the time of year. Think about work schedules, holidays, travel needs, and your dream wedding vibe (summer garden? cozy winter celebration?).
Step 2: Create a Budget
This is the not-so-glamorous part, but one of the most important. Talk with your partner (and any family members contributing) to outline a realistic budget. A simple spreadsheet will do — or use a planner to make it more fun.
Helpful Pick:
Wedding Budget Planner Book – Amazon
Step 3: Make a Guest List
Your guest count affects almost everything — budget, venue, catering — so start a rough list now. Begin with your must-haves (family, close friends) and work out from there. This isn’t the final version, just a headcount estimate!
Pretty + Practical Tools:
- Personalized Wedding Planner by The Paper Peach on Etsy (5 stars, 31,000+ reviews)
- ☐ Choose a wedding season or tentative date
- ☐ Start your wedding budget
- ☐ Create a rough draft of your guest list
- ☐ Begin brainstorming your wedding vibe
💡 Bonus: Create Your Big Picture Vision
Close your eyes — what does your dream wedding feel like? Romantic and classic? Rustic and cozy? Don’t stress about the details just yet. Just jot down your favorite styles, colors, or even Pinterest links to get inspired.
📝 Week 1 Recap
Here’s your mini checklist to kick things off:
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Next Week on 52 Weeks to Wed:
“How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Venue” — what to ask on tours, how early to book, and tips for finding your dream space. Don’t miss it!
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