Your complete guide to being the best support system on your daughter’s wedding day.
Wondering what the mother of the bride is supposed to do? From dress shopping and helping with the guest list to offering emotional support and knowing your role on the big day — this guide covers everything you need to know.
Whether you’re a hands-on helper or taking a more relaxed approach, here’s how to be a thoughtful and confident mother of the bride on your daughter’s big day.
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- What to Wear: 50 Best Mother of the Bride Dresses That Aren’t Ugly
- Stylish Mother of the Bride Shoes to Wear
- Mother of the Bride Dresses That Cover Arms
- Mother of the Bride Gift Ideas
50 Best Mother of the Bride Dresses That Aren’t Ugly
Not sure what to wear? Here’s how to find a flattering, appropriate dress and coordinate with the bride, mother of the groom, and bridal party — without clashing or outshining.
Mother of the Bride Gift Ideas
Sentimental, useful, and keepsake-worthy — these mother of the bride gift ideas are perfect for celebrating your unique role in the wedding journey.
Mother of the Bride Dresses That Cover Arms
Perfect outfit ideas for the MOB during the cooler months.
What Shoes to Wear: Mother of the Bride Edition
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Mother of the Bride FAQ
What is the role of the mother of the bride?
The mother of the bride traditionally helps with guest list planning, offers emotional support, hosts or co-hosts pre-wedding events, and assists the bride throughout the planning process and on the wedding day. Today, the role can be as involved or hands-off as the bride prefers.
Who walks the mother of the bride down the aisle?
Traditionally, the mother of the bride is escorted down the aisle by a son, close relative, or usher before the ceremony begins. However, this is flexible and can be customized based on family dynamics and preferences.
Should the mother of the bride match the wedding colors?
The mother of the bride doesn’t have to match the wedding colors exactly but should choose a dress that complements the wedding palette and doesn’t clash with the bridal party. Coordination with the mother of the groom is also recommended.
Does the mother of the bride give a speech?
It’s not required, but some mothers of the bride do give a speech or toast during the rehearsal dinner or reception. Always check with the couple first and keep it short, heartfelt, and appropriate.
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