You’re engaged! Now what? This guide walks you through what to do immediately after saying “yes” — plus all the fun, stylish, and meaningful ways to celebrate and start planning your wedding. From engagement ring care to must-have planning tools, we’ve got everything a newly engaged couple needs to know.
💍 First Things to Do After Getting Engaged
- Read: Just Engaged? Here’s What to Do First
- Tell your family and friends — in person or via FaceTime, before posting online.
- Announce it on social with a cute photo. Need ideas? Check out these engagement photo suggestions.
- Get your ring insured and sized properly if needed.
🛠️ Wedding Planning Starter Kit
Just got engaged? Here are the essentials you’ll want to start strong:
🚫 What NOT to Do After Getting Engaged
- Don’t start booking vendors before setting your budget
- Don’t assume everyone is invited — start a guest list early
- Don’t rush the planning — take a week to enjoy being engaged
📸 Engagement Photo Outfit Ideas
📝 Start Planning: What Comes Next
- The Best Wedding Planner Book (with checklists + budget tools)
- Wedding Budget Spreadsheets
- Start Your Registry: Amazon Wedding Registry Tips
“You’re not just engaged — you’re about to plan the best party of your life.”
“This is your time to celebrate. Don’t skip the champagne, the selfies, or the joy.”
🗓️ Quick Wedding Planning Timeline Preview
Not sure when to do what? Here’s a fast look:
- 12+ months: Set budget, book venue
- 9 months: Order dress, start guest list
- 6 months: Hire vendors
→ See the full Bride Guide here
🎁 Just Engaged Gift Ideas
- Engaged Era mug or wine tumblers
- Useful Engagement Gifts for the Bride-to-Be [2025]
- Wedding ring dish or jewelry tray
- Cute Bride Shirts + Outfits
📚 Engagement Books & Journals
📋 Engagement Guide FAQ
What is the first thing to do after getting engaged?
Call or visit close friends and family to share the news, then post your announcement and celebrate together. After that, start thinking about ring insurance and wedding timeline planning.
When should you take engagement photos?
Anywhere from a few weeks to a couple months after the proposal is ideal — especially if you want to use the photos for save-the-dates or wedding websites.
Should I start planning right away?
Take time to enjoy the moment, but within a few weeks it’s smart to discuss budget, timeline, and guest list size. That’s when the real planning begins!
► Ready? Get started! You’ll need a budget: our Budget Breakdown will help you get started!
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