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From Etsy to Minted to Amazon, who has the best cards for asking someone to be in your wedding?
If you’re wondering where to buy bridesmaid proposal cards for the big ask — will you be my bridesmaid? — you’ve come to the right place!
We’re sharing the best cards for a sweet yet inexpensive way to request they be a part of your wedding.
PRO TIP: A proposal card can be given by itself or paired with a fun gift for an extra-special present.
Bridesmaid Proposal Card
Do you have to give bridesmaids anything in order to ask?
Technically, no, but is it a good idea? Yes! As a rule of thumb, you should ask bridesmaids to stand up in your wedding no less than 1 year prior to the big day.
How to Propose
You can give bridesmaid ask boxes, get empty bridesmaid boxes and fill them with your own gifts, or buy bridesmaid proposal cards — maybe even a mix of the two. You can ask in person or send a gift by mail, and then follow-up with a phone call.
Does a bridesmaid proposal have to be expensive?
No! It’s important to keep the cost low, as this is supposed to be a small gift to ask to be in your wedding. There is a separate thank you gift given to bridesmaids on the wedding day, so make sure you prepare your budget accordingly.
Do you know where to buy cheap bridesmaid proposal cards?
You can get cheap cards in a pack of 8 from here. They’re highly rated. To be honest, all of the cards shown here are a great price. A card is simple, affordable, and heartfelt. You can write a special message inside!
Add a Cheap Gift
If you want to pair proposal cards with bridesmaid gifts, but you don’t want to spend too much money, give something affordable and useful. The best item to buy with a card is, in my opinion, a pair of these socks. Bridesmaids can wear them leading up to and on the wedding day (and it makes for a cute photo-op!) These socks are by BlissfulSocks.
What to Write in Bridesmaid Cards
What should you write inside a bridesmaid card? You can be short and sweet and just write a succinct “be my bridesmaid” message, sign your name (if the card already has a pre-printed message), or write a small paragraph of the reasons why you’d love for them to be a part of your wedding.
Remember: it doesn’t have to be perfect! Writing inside bridesmaid proposal cards is all about — as cheesy as this sounds — writing from the heart. You can keep it light with funny memories and stories, nicknames, and more.
It doesn’t matter how you ask, just be sure you do it with ample time for bridesmaids to make proper arrangements.
Here are the best cards for bridesmaid proposal / ask boxes.
Get adorable bridesmaid ask boxes like this from HappilyChicDesigns.
1. Funny Bridesmaid Proposal Cards
These are some of the funniest proposal cards for bridesmaids I’ve seen yet. Raise your hand if you’re that cheesy snack-eatin’ bride! :) By LailaMeDesigns.
2. The One Where You’re My Bridesmaid
One of the best bridesmaid proposal cards to date! By Chomerry.
Pair it with this.
3. Now Act Surprised
This is one of the best bridesmaid cards for proposals. By FireflyPaperStudio.
4. Open Bar
Need I say more? You can buy funny bridesmaid proposal cards at OneMoreGlassOfWine.
This is one of the cute bridesmaid cards when she already knows the big question is coming! Design by Pink House Press.
6. You Drink Too Much, Swear Too Much
What a hilarious proposal card for bridesmaids to open! By Goroar.
7. Bridesmaid Proposal Cards with Photo
If you want to give a bridesmaid card with picture(s) on it, look no further! This template is easy to edit and personalize with favorite photos of the two of you. By Michelle Taylor.
Here are bridesmaid and maid of honor proposal cards by Ekko Studio. The example shows Maid of Honor but is easily edited to reflect bridesmaid text.
8. Denim Jacket
How cute is this denim jacket bridesmaid card? It goes great with a matching jacket like this! By Caitlin Considine.
One of the best bridesmaid proposal cards, IMO. By Tagooey.
10. Stuck With Us
This popular card for bridesmaid boxes is so true… he’s stuck with all of you! Ha! By AcetiDesignCo.
11. Look At Me, Getting All Married
… and shhhhhhhhhh. Get these cheap bridesmaid proposal cards Amazon has to offer in a pack of 8 by InvitationHouse.
12. My Future Bridesmaid Card
This proposal card reads, “Please deliver to my future bridesmaid”. Cute design by Jennifer Lew.
13. Bridesmaid Dress Hanger
This card is great as-is, but would be even more fun paired with one of these! Card by Cass Loh.
Get ready to PAAAAAAARRRRRRTTTYYYY! By Norssiby.
15. Wouldn’t Be a Bridal Party Card
By Lea Delavaris.
16. Promise Not To Make You Wear an Ugly Dress
This is a good promise to make, right off the bat! ;) By Goroar.
17. Free Wine
Now that I’ve got your attention… haha! It goes great with one of these. Card by Goroar.
18. Be My Bridesmaid Illustration Card
Get it illustrated! Customize your bridesmaid cards with hair color, skin color, dress color, etc. By InkandFred.
Where to Buy Bridesmaid Proposal Cards
You can buy proposal cards for bridesmaids from these wonderful places! Just click on a photo or link underneath it to purchase.
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